You found that someone special. You know you need to spend the rest of your life with this one person. You know that being able to spend the rest of your life together is the idea of bliss. But all of us know there are no guarantees in life. So, how do you make certain you both stay happy, each with the other? This article provides five relationship secrets to keeping your relationship amazing.
That might mean a quiet evening at home. It may mean going ballroom dance. It might mean dinner and a movie. The more quality time you have together, the more warm loving memories you co-create. The warm loving memories you both share, the stronger your relationship will be.
Dating Secret #2: Communicate Openly with Genuine Concern, Each for the Other
Perhaps the most significant relationship key is the imperative for both members of a couple to talk openly with one another, each having a genuine concern for the feelings, wishes, needs and desires of the other. You might not always agree with each other, but when you dialogue with a genuine concern for one another, you will always find that mutually agreeable way forward. And, in so doing, you may both co-create a strong foundation for a lifetime of happiness together.
An extension of the second connection secret, is to keep your spouse’safe’. This means that when you are with family and friends, you take a united stand with your life partner. Similarly, if they’re going through a difficult situation, you let your spouse know you will always be there for them. It may be as simple as giving them a hug and standing right beside them if/when they need to face a former partner.
Relationship Secret #4: Make Each Other Your GO TO Person
This relationship secret builds on the second and third ones. When you create an environment of open dialogue, and you both feel’secure’, you will become one another’s GO TO individual when there are personal or professional problems to handle. Every time you seek one another’s help with a problem, you strengthen your coupledom bond even further. On the other side of the equation, you feel your partner’s love. On the giving side of this equation, you experience the joy in being able to help your partner through a tough issue.
Lastly, you can make your life partner’s day when you do things for them, simply because you know how much your spouse will love it. You can be really creative in finding more ways to put a delighted smile in your spouse’s face.
And when you do things because you know how much your spouse will love it, you may be thrilled to find your life partner will spontaneously do something special for you also. This isn’t a case of quid pro quo. Instead, it’s a matter of doing something special for your partner because you enjoy viewing the delighted smile on your partner’s face. In turn, your spouse will want to do something equally special to see the delighted smile on your face.
These five secrets are extremely powerful. And yet, they are just the beginning. The longer you have been a part of a couple, the more skilled you become in nurturing one another’s happiness. Your connection will be better for it.